Bare (Sissy Lifestyle)

Assignments are great - I have fun making them and doing them (and they seem to be a favorite for people not stopping by for a quick fap - not to knock fapping, it's necessary with an unrestrained sissy's sexual drive). But there's only so much you can do with a task that lasts one or two days that any sissy can easily complete. So today is the first Sissy Lifestyle assignment.

Sissy Lifestyle assignments are for sissies that have come to embrace their inner girl. And while you might not be ready to shout from the rooftops that you are a sissy, you're ready to invest more of your time and money into her needs (after all, if you spend $50 on clothes in a month, how fair is it that she gets nothing?).

Now you see it...

Since most sissies are diving into the depths of winter and since this is the first sissy lifestyle assignment, we'll start easy: shaving. Nothing to buy, nothing to risk. All you'll need is a little time.

Women generally have finer body hair than men. It is also thinner and grows in fewer places. For instance, women do not generally get hair on their breasts, whereas a hairy chest is often a sign of manliness (and many men have hair around their nipples). Underarm and leg shaving is all the rage throughout the world (for women - so that means for you too, sissy!) - whether for aesthetic, athletic or religious reasons.

For this sissy lifestyle assignment you are going to spend the winter keeping yourself shaved like a woman in the most inconspicuous places. The first day will certainly be the most daunting, since you'll have the most work (as you end up shaving more often and with more skill it will go faster and require less clean up). You can remove the hair any way you like, but I very much recommend against an electric razor (it's easier to get razor burn and the shave isn't close).

Now you don't...

Shaving is best done in or right after a shower or bath, when your pores are open and the hair follicles are most accessible. Since most sissies don't have the funds or courage to go for full facial hair removal you might as well start there and shave normally. For the purposes of this assignment you are going to shave your legs and your underarms - the two (and, in the winter, very clandestine) parts of your body destined for feminization first. If you're very hairy, or a more courageous sissy, you should also shave your chest and back.

(I haven't included the pubic area since that is up to you - a woman's or sissy's decision to shave down below is her own preference (but may I recommend a heart shape? :D)).

Leg shaving can be very tricky, so you may want to consult a wiki. Remember that if you have a fresh, sharp blade you really don't need any pressure, just pull the blade gently and smoothly along the skin. And if you have sensitive skin or skin prone to in-grown hairs, shave with the grain multiple times instead of shaving against the grain (for the legs, this would be downwards instead of upwards).

Making it a Lifestyle

Of course, now you'll need a normal shaving schedule, sissy!

Many women shave their legs every 3 to 5 days since leg hair stubble becomes more noticeable after about 72 hours. You'll certainly want to match their feminine routine. Every 3 (or 4 if you want to set it to specific days of the week) you are going to shave your armpits and your legs. And you're going to continue that routine until April.

Of course, by then you may be so locked in your routine that you won't have any inclination to stop. After all, you could always claim you're shaving for other reasons in addition to becoming a better sissy!

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Minor update

In order to help every sissy keep track of her feminization schedule, I've set up a neat little calendar to help out! Hopefully it helps a few ladies stick to their new lifestyle.

More posting-related, I've tried to fix up some grammar and spelling in some of the captions (if I notice them I try to replace them with corrected versions). Devout sissies may have noticed that the scheduling for the blog is a bit haphazard - I guarantee nothing, but aspire to provide at least 15 updates per month. And since there's not much content here today, I'll leave you ladies a lovely model sissy to idolize!

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Truth or Dare 4

Ready to open a freshly wrapped truth or dare?

We are approaching the core of the holiday season, and in the spirit of gift giving and receiving, it's time to explore what your sissy self has always wanted as a gift!

Truth: Which of your female friends/siblings gifts did you really want?

Many sizes would love to receive some smooth, lacy lingerie for Christmas today, but as children many sissies also yearned for the gifts that their female friends and relatives received. Either too secretive or confused to actively ask for such gifts, they had a hidden jealousy for the unwrapped gifts of their female peers.

I was occasionally "forced" to play house and Barbies with my sisters. But dressing and having imaginary everyday adventures was certainly fun, and I was never one to balk at the idea (a great, more modern analogue is the Sims - which is why it's a frequent favorite among girl gamers). As one of the youngest instances of preferring one of my sister's gifts, I remember a sleek, pink convertible being unwrapped and thinking how cool it would be to have my neatly-dressed Skipper cruising around.

So what was your most desired treasure, sissy? A Barbie or a cosmetics case? Or maybe even something a bit more tomboyish like a Mia Hamm jersey? Or just something as simple as the clothes your sister got?

Of course, you may have become a sissy a bit later, in which case you certainly have more ...adult gifts to fill your sissy wishlist.

Dare: I dare you to gift your inner sissy something she's always wanted.

How often has your inner sissy been able to unwrap a present specifically addressed to her? Have you completely embraced your feminine side and opened a package addressed to you with your sissy name?

Well if you haven't, now's the time.

What you want as a sissy can vary spectacularly. For very juvenile sissies, it may be something like a Barbie or a jewelry making kit. Most sissies - even if they were interested in their sisters' or cousins' gifts - still didn't receive much in the way of girly gifts and accessories as a kid. It may be the perfect opportunity to gift your inner sissy a childhood memory with a present she wanted as a child.

Of course, many sissies are grown up and prefer more adult gifts. Perhaps your inner sissy is a bit of a slut or nympho. She may benefit from a dildo or vibe to help curb some of that arousal (of course, knowing many sissies this may exacerbate the situation, but she'll certainly love it). Maybe she's always wanted (but could never work up the courage for) a dress or exotic outfit. Or maybe even lingerie. She's you, so only you can know what she truly wants for Christmas.

And then you'll wrap it and address it specifically to her. Feel free to put it under your tree (of course, some gifts are best in private :D ). Then on Christmas Day (or at some other point if you're ordering online or aren't Christmas-inclined), let your inner sissy dress to the nines and open the gift she's always wanted!


So a very Happy Holidays to you sissies and may all your wishes come true!
(even if it takes a little time)

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2012 Resolutions (2)

It's almost the beginning of a new year (for most of the world, anyway), which means it's also time for resolutions. Goals for you to aspire to and fulfill for a full year. So yesterday and today I've got some resolution ideas for you. They'll be split between feminization and sissification.


Today is the day to pick a resolution for your own sissification throughout the year.

Every sissy aspires to pure femininity, but their end-goal as a girl can differ greatly. Some want to be cuckolded, some want to become cumsluts, some want to be obedient submissives, and others just want to be girls. Some are undecided and sample from all walks of sissydom. So your sissification goal will very much depend on you.


1. Buy a dildo and/or a butt plug.

Do you dream of sucking cock every night? Is your mind full of ideas of you dressed as a slut, taking it in each of your sissy holes? If either of those sound remotely like you, then it's time to stop putting off your destiny any longer. Buy a dildo or a buttplug (or both) and start practicing stretching and sucking every day. When you finally reach the tipping point of making your dreams come true you'll be ready on moment's notice. Plus you'll have loads of fun in the meantime.


2. Only cum once per week

As discussed previously, your head and male persona are the main obstacles preventing your sissification from progressing more rapidly. Right after he cums he wants to rub off all the makeup, turn off the hypnosis and spit out that lovely load of cum. Well it's time to limit his influence by limiting how often you masturbate to just once a week. 52 orgasms per year or fewer. It may even be time to get yourself a cage and hand off the key to someone to keep you honest. But think of the progress your feminine side will make (and how sensitive your clitty will be for each time you cum)!


3. Get and maintain a sissy tan

You don't need deep-bronzed skin. You don't even need to visit a tanning salon every day, but you are going at least 3 times per week until you get a base tan, and then once per week after that. Wearing a bikini (or bra and panties) so that you can be sure to have sissy lingerie branded onto your skin. And then in summer you can tan outside, how perfect for a blossoming sissy!


4. Get a professional manicure/pedicure at least every 3 months.

Sissies, like the girls they emulate, focus on beauty. And if a sissy's goal is simply to be the best possible girl, then she certainly has to follow suit. Many women treat themselves to manicures and pedicures for special occasions. And while many of them do them at home very week or two, beauty-conscious women often go in for professional work every few months for a day of pampering. It's time to add that to you schedule. You're going to get your nails done - professionally (although you can certainly work on them every week at home, too). And you'll surely want to build up a rapport with your nail technician, so make sure you go to the same nail salon each time.


5. Wear diapers at least once per day

Because many sissies love AB/DL, I've got an extra resolution option for them: wear a diaper at least one day per week. Of course, on the day diapers are mandatory good little sissies will only use the potty once in the morning, and then are relegated to their diaper for the rest of the day.


So there you go, sissies. It's time to pick which resolutions you want to embrace for the coming year. You'll certainly need one feminization resolution, but whether or not you have a sissification goal is up to you (of course, if it were up to me I'd say "Yes, you need to have one!" :D ).

That does it for 2011. Thanks for visiting the blog and providing feedback (also nice to see the feminization resolutions have garnered such a fast response!). I appreciate the support! So...

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Bracelet (Sissy Lifestyle)

Has shaving become so second nature that you don't even remember adopting a sissy lifestyle? Then it's time to add a new accessory to your sissyness with a new sissy lifeestyle change.


Men do not accessorize very well. Most men do not happily wear jewelry and accessories. A watch or a ring may be dutifully worn for work or marriage. Some men may even wear a necklace or bracelet for remembrance or religion, but very rarely do they vary their accessories or wear anything delicate and feminine. Of course, you're different sissy. You would love to wear something girly. Something that exhibits your inner femininity.

That's why it's time to get your very own sissy bracelet.

It doesn't need to be flashy or personalized (although that doesn't hurt). It doesn't need to be fragile or difficult to handle, either. In fact, a delicate necklace made of pink or purple glass (or plastic) beads would be perfect. Something beautiful, durable and easy to put on would be perfect.

If you're into arts and crafts this is a perfect opportunity to give your inner sissy the memory of a childhood activity; you could buy the materials to make an even more personalized bracelet (nothing says "I love my inner sissy" like a bracelet that you wear every day with her name on it!).

This will be your go to accessory. Many sissies are still a bit hesitant to announce their femininity to the world, so fully dressing up as you'd like may not be an option. But your sissy bracelet will be there to make sure you're always reminded of who you truly are. You'll take it off for bed and put it on your nightstand. You'll slip it on first thing in the morning. Whenever you're alone it will be there, gracefully dangling from your wrist.

You're going to keep this bracelet on-hand at all times (although you need not wear it if others are around). You'll wear it whenever you're alone - especially if you're pretending to trounce around like a man instead of dressed up like the sissy girl you are (you need not actually wear it in the shower or swimming or the like - just have it nearby in such cases).

The rationale for your new sissy bracelet is two-fold: exhibiting your femininity and remind you of your femininity.

Unlike panties or bras or even stockings or toenail polish, a bracelet is eminently visible, flashy and very feminine. You may be sitting at your computer, but a glimpse down at your wrist will remind you of the sissy inside that you shouldn't be ignoring. In addition, bracelets and other jewelry are a basic accessory that women all over the world use to express their personality, fashion sense and to draw attention.

The most important function of the bracelet will only become apparent after you've worn it consistently for a few days. Many sissies have not advanced far enough that they're willing to dress and express their femininity in public - at work or out and about. Since you only have to wear the bracelet when you're alone, you still won't need to wear the bracelet in such situations. But because you'll be wearing it every chance you get, you'll get used to it. You'll start to notice how bare your wrist feels without it. You'll be reminded of the weight and meaning and femininity.

You may just want to keep your sissy bracelet proudly on display all the time.

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