Limp (Assignment)

No, not that kind of limp, sissy.

Gestures and mannerisms are an important part of femininity. Most women are more physically expressive than men, but their gestures are also more subtle. Most men don't have the long flowing hair (or the inclination like you do, sissy) to twirl or flip their hair. Most men don't have the breadth of emotion or awareness to bite their lip when they're unsure or aroused. But many sissies are too afraid that someone will notice their womanly gesticulations so they don't practice or reinforce what may come naturally.

Keeping your legs together when possible and not "spreading eagle" when you sit down are both good examples of body language a good sissy should try to emulate, but they're also very obvious. A sissy pretending to be a man doesn't have much of disguise if she folds one leg over the other and always keeps her elbows at her sides. And although a sissy should never really hide her inner girl, it's an inevitable fact that many do.



But there is a gesture that can be very subtle and very feminine: the limp wrist.

A limp wrist shows submissiveness and docility. Female executives are taught to expunge this gesture from their repertoire since it implies defenselessness and weakness. Its use by women is so commonplace that the term "limp-wrist" is often associated with gay men striving for femininity - but that's not applicable here, sissy. You are a sissy realizing her feminine nature.


Your goal for the next week is to consciously do what subconsciously comes to many women: have limp wrists (until it becomes second nature to you too, sissy). If at all possible your wrists should be bent. Your fingers should never be aligned with your forearm; the back of your wrist should not form a line with the back of your forearm. If you're laying your hands on your lap make sure your wrists are slightly bent. Unless of course you're doing something that can only be done with straight wrists (such as typing).

After a week your muscle memory is sure to have gotten in tune with your feminine self and you should be limp whenever it's appropriate.


As a computer-savvy sissy (you are visiting this blog, after all), you can always say you're bending your wrists as physical exercise to alleviate carpal tunnel syndrome...and to reinforce your femininity.

Girl Time (Assignment)

Many sissy blogs have an overt fixation on sex, without a focus on much else (over the last month or so this is probably true for the Sissy Spot as well). This is understandable, since many sissies are, in fact, perpetually horny and have an overt fixation on sex. Sissies often have a very high sex drive - even if they're not able to exercise it (due to chastity belts or for other reasons).

But whether you hope to become (or your mistress is transforming you into) a cock-crazed super slut or you want to be a more down-to-earth, feminine counterpart to your old male self, there's a simple truth. There's no way your life could exclusively consist of sex and sleeping. Sex is tiring work.


So today we're going to help you get in touch with your sissy side, even during down time. Being girly during daily life is far more enduring and important than just being dressed in girl's clothes for 15 minutes while you rub your clitty through your panties.

So tomorrow after you get home from work or class (or when you wake up, if you have nothing to do tomorrow), you're going to start relaxing like a girl. Of course, like many fun, feminine things this will actually take a little work at first ("Work to relax, Natalie?" I hear you cry. Yes! That's how it becomes routine, more enjoyable and easier to slip into without thinking about it).

You'll have to start with loose relaxation clothes. I recommend panties, a loose-fitting dress and some stockings. If you're a very under-stocked sissy, you could even get by with boxers (or pajama bottoms) and an over-sized T-shirt, but then you'll need to be absolutely sure you don't do any of your stressful, old masculine leisure activities. Then you'll need to put on a little make-up. Blush, lipstick and eyeshadow would be sufficient; you can go more in-depth if you want, but it really needs to be "quick jaunt to the store make-up" - a light application.


If you've gone full-on raccoon eyeliner and porn star-esque lipliner you've certainly gone too far. A good benchmark: you'll know you're wearing make up, but if someone didn't know how you looked saw you, they wouldn't notice that you're wearing any.

Now you're ready to relax until you have to go to sleep. What to do to relax? One of my favorite things is to curl up with a stuffed animal and watch a nice movie. A "chick flick", a childhood favorite or a simple drama would be best. Naturally plenty of actual girls like action or sci-fi, but you'll need something softer and more cerebral for this assignment.

Alternatively you could practice giving yourself a manicure or pedicure - they can be quite relaxing when done right (of course). An excellent option is to take a lovely, scented body lotion and give yourself a massage (you'll also have the side-benefit of smelling very femme!).L Listening to music and chatting are also good girly past times. Reading (if in doubt find a female author) or doing puzzles will work nicely as well.

Just make sure you're doing things you enjoy that you wouldn't be doing in "boy mode" (or however you want to refer to those boring things you pretend to enjoy when not being true to your sissy self).

There's only one thing you mustn't do. You are absolutely, positively not allowed to touch your clitty. No sex, no masturbation. Dressing like a girl may still excite you, but sex is only a very small portion of what you do during the day, so it's time to practice something else instead of rubbing yourself to orgasm. This also has the side benefit of keeping you a bit more focused on being girly.