Many sissy blogs have an overt fixation on sex, without a focus on much else (over the last month or so this is probably true for the Sissy Spot as well). This is understandable, since many sissies are, in fact, perpetually horny and have an overt fixation on sex. Sissies often have a very high sex drive - even if they're not able to exercise it (due to chastity belts or for other reasons).
But whether you hope to become (or your mistress is transforming you into) a cock-crazed super slut or you want to be a more down-to-earth, feminine counterpart to your old male self, there's a simple truth. There's no way your life could exclusively consist of sex and sleeping. Sex is tiring work.
So today we're going to help you get in touch with your sissy side, even during down time. Being girly during daily life is far more enduring and important than just being dressed in girl's clothes for 15 minutes while you rub your clitty through your panties.
So tomorrow after you get home from work or class (or when you wake up, if you have nothing to do tomorrow), you're going to start relaxing like a girl. Of course, like many fun, feminine things this will actually take a little work at first ("Work to relax, Natalie?" I hear you cry. Yes! That's how it becomes routine, more enjoyable and easier to slip into without thinking about it).
You'll have to start with loose relaxation clothes. I recommend panties, a loose-fitting dress and some stockings. If you're a very under-stocked sissy, you could even get by with boxers (or pajama bottoms) and an over-sized T-shirt, but then you'll need to be absolutely sure you don't do any of your stressful, old masculine leisure activities. Then you'll need to put on a little make-up. Blush, lipstick and eyeshadow would be sufficient; you can go more in-depth if you want, but it really needs to be "quick jaunt to the store make-up" - a light application.
If you've gone full-on raccoon eyeliner and porn star-esque lipliner you've certainly gone too far. A good benchmark: you'll know you're wearing make up, but if someone didn't know how you looked saw you, they wouldn't notice that you're wearing any.
Now you're ready to relax until you have to go to sleep. What to do to relax? One of my favorite things is to curl up with a stuffed animal and watch a nice movie. A "chick flick", a childhood favorite or a simple drama would be best. Naturally plenty of actual girls like action or sci-fi, but you'll need something softer and more cerebral for this assignment.
Alternatively you could practice giving yourself a manicure or pedicure - they can be quite relaxing when done right (of course). An excellent option is to take a lovely, scented body lotion and give yourself a massage (you'll also have the side-benefit of smelling very femme!).L Listening to music and chatting are also good girly past times. Reading (if in doubt find a female author) or doing puzzles will work nicely as well.
Just make sure you're doing things you enjoy that you wouldn't be doing in "boy mode" (or however you want to refer to those boring things you pretend to enjoy when not being true to your sissy self).
There's only one thing you mustn't do. You are absolutely, positively not allowed to touch your clitty. No sex, no masturbation. Dressing like a girl may still excite you, but sex is only a very small portion of what you do during the day, so it's time to practice something else instead of rubbing yourself to orgasm. This also has the side benefit of keeping you a bit more focused on being girly.
